It’d be nice to buy in to the “colorblind” stuff. “I don’t see race, I just see humans.” But it doesn’t work. And in the end it will be better that we don’t.
It’d also be nice to be able to say that after living in Garfield Park, all stereotypes are obliterated and I’m without preconceived notions. But again, nope.
So it’s always nice when stereotypes are obliterated. It reminds me that I really can’t judge people by what they look like, that people can, and will, always surprise me…
On the bus. In the back. Observing. There’s a young guy, sagged jeans and a black hoodie. Hard face. A man in a wheelchair gets on the bus. The man with the hard face relinquishes his seat in the handicapped section. A few stops later, another handicapped person gets on. The bus driver lowers the ramp, and it’s the second long stop in a just a few minutes. The young guy with the hard face gets up to help raise the seat for the newcomer. At the same time, a better-dressed, older gentleman, gets up and exits the bus, rolling his eyes, clearly frustrated with how long everything is taking.
I thought to myself, “I would’ve put those people in opposite places.” Usually age means respect and compassion. Youth, impatience and frustration. But on the bus that day, everything was flip-flopped. And I was glad.
I can always use a reminder that boxes never fit.